THE ROOT 9: 9.3

Your Story, Adorned

Last week, I wrote a bit about how statement jewelry is taking on classic elements, particularly pearls, and reimagining them with a modern edge. This trend can be bubbled up a bit - a broader movement within fashion to embrace loud authenticity.

Rather than adhering strictly to ephemeral micro-trends, there's a discernible increase in seeking nuanced ways to express our identities through our dressing. Think, personal touches that feel intrinsically connected to the wearer, moving beyond mere replication of current styles seen on a mannequin or influencer.

And, though statement jewelry is one way to do add in this authenticity, there are other ways in which we can interweave our interests & unique quirks into our day to day dressing through more subtle personal touches - charms. And no, I am not referring to a revival of Alex & Ani bracelets (though you never know).

An intriguing juxtaposition exists between bag charms and the principles of quiet luxury. Brands such as Loewe, Loro Piana, The Row, and Khaite have effectively appealed to a consumer base that values understated elegance, where distinction lies in craftsmanship and design subtlety rather than overt branding. Leaning into a sentiment of “if you know you know”. I, personally, love to tap into loud or quiet branding - depending on my mood. We are multifaceted human beings!

Yet if we look at these brands, they are pairing simple and elegant tote with louder, comment-worthy charms. Transforming a versatile and somewhat transferable (but chic nonetheless) accessory into a distinctly individual statement.

For example, Loewe’s Martini Olives Bag Charm will definitely catch your eye. Loro Piana’s Goat Charm is a bit more subtle, but still unique.

The process of acquiring these charms can itself be a uniquely personal experience. While luxury houses offer high-end options, more accessible alternatives are available through retailers like Madewell, Free People, and Coach. Arguably, the most meaningful discoveries often occur within smaller, independent shops (both online and local) or through the serendipity of vintage and thrift finds.

Here is some inspiration, in case you or someone else in your life would love a fun new accessory that feels more personal:

Turn the Tables

Our weekends often feel like these precious little gems, and as time goes on, I find myself becoming more and more selective about how I spend those sacred hours. Protecting that personal time and feeling empowered to opt out when something doesn't quite resonate feels like an important act of self-care. But lately, something else has been on my mind. Since diving into 75 Hard, I've noticed how my loved ones have shown up for me through their actions – suggesting runs instead of happy hours, opting for home-cooked meals over restaurant dinners – to support my current lifestyle.

It's made me wonder: am I extending that same grace? Am I actively showing up for their interests with the same enthusiasm? It's a gentle reminder that the give-and-take in our closest relationships is what truly allows them to flourish, ensuring no one feels like their efforts are being overlooked.

So, this week, instead of pointing you toward one specific fun activity, I'm proposing a little challenge that shifts the focus of our weekend. Think about someone in your life who has consistently been your "yes" person lately, happily joining in on your plans without vocally pushing their own desires. This weekend, I encourage you to give them the spotlight. Ask them what they would love to do. Even if their choice isn't the first thing that would have popped into your head, embrace the opportunity to experience it with them.

Sometimes, the most fulfilling kind of fun comes not from pursuing our own passions exclusively, but from the simple act of showing up, prioritizing someone else's joy, and letting those little acts of service weave their way into the fabric of our relationships.

This Friday’s Food for Thought is a little interactive — but I hope you’ll enjoy it.

If you can, close your eyes and think of one of your favorite memories from at least five years ago. Let yourself really sit in it for a few seconds. No rush. 

Now, read the next few questions and see what you remember. If you don’t know the answers, that’s totally okay.

Now, answer these:

I’m guessing the second set of questions was much easier to answer.

And yet… it’s the first set we tend to dwell on in our daily lives.

When I find myself wondering what really matters to me, I look to my memories. Time has a way of sifting out the noise — leaving you with a clear picture of what actually stays with you.

Wishing you a grounded, joyful weekend.